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The definitive guide to style in your 40s.

Defining Style in Your 40s: A Personal Journey 

Is it just me, or does it feel like figuring out your style in your 40s takes on a whole new meaning? There’s a level of confidence that comes with this age. 

But still, sometimes it’s hard to know what'sright

I’ve been thinking a lot about what style means now that I’m not 25, or even 30. I remember a time when style was all about keeping up with what was "in" at the moment. But as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found myself less interested in trends and more interested in defining whatmy style is all about.

So, I did some research, and I thought I’d share what I’ve learned along the way. 

If you’ve ever struggled with how to define your style as you navigate your 40s, this is for you.

Trust Your Instincts: Whatever Feels Right, Is Right

Let me start by saying this: one of the best things about being in your 40s is that you’ve likely developed a sense of self that’s stronger than ever. You know what you like, and more importantly, you know what you don’t. But still, we sometimes second-guess ourselves when it comes to our personal style.

Here’s the thing—whatever feels right, is right. 


There’s no “right” way to dress in your 40s. There’s no magic formula for what works and what doesn’t. If you feel good in what you’re wearing, that’s what matters. There’s power in trusting your instincts and wearing what makes you feel likeyou.

I used to think I needed to stick to certain rules—no white after labor Day, etc. But now I realize that style rules are meant to be broken. If it feels good, wear it. There’s no such thing as “appropriate.” I’ve learned that the best style is the one that feels authentic to you.

Jewelry: The Secret Weapon to Elevating Your Style 

Now, I have to share one of my favorite discoveries about defining style in your 40s:jewelry. Here’s what I know: jewelry can elevate your look instantly.

I’m not talking about piling on layers of flashy, over-the-top pieces. It’s the thoughtful addition of meaningful jewelry that really makes an outfit stand out. For me, I love layering delicate necklaces—some that I’ve had for years and have sentimental value, others that I’ve picked up along the way because they make me feel good. Whether it’s a simple gold chain, a bracelet my kids gave me, or a pair of earrings that remind me of a special occasion, each piece of jewelry I wear tells a story. And I think that’s what makes it so powerful.

Jewelry is personal. It’s more than just an accessory—it’s a way to make your look your own. One of the best style tips I’ve embraced in my 40s is to invest in pieces that feel meaningful and can stand up to my busy lifestyle. Pieces that don’t tarnish or turn my hands green. Pieces that I can truly live in - wear daily, sleep, shower, repeat - are my go-to.

You don’t have to go overboard, either. Sometimes all it takes is some layered chains to completely change the vibe of an outfit. And on days when I don’t feel like I’m looking my best, adding a pair of hoops or cute chains instantly makes me feel more put together. It’s like the finishing touch that ties everything together.

Confidence Is Your Best Accessory

One of the biggest shifts I’ve noticed in how I define style now versus my younger years is that I’m no longer looking for validation from others. In my 20s, I wanted to be noticed. But now? Now I dress forme.

Style in your 40s is about owning your look with confidence. Whether I’m wearing a simple t-shirt and jeans or a bold dress with heels, the important thing I’ve learned is that confidence makes all the difference. If you wear something with confidence, it shows. People notice, but more importantly, you feel good in your own skin. 

I don’t need to prove anything to anyone, and I think that’s why I feel more stylish now than I ever did before.

Play Around and Have Fun

One last thing I want to share: just because we’re in our 40s doesn’t mean we can’t have fun with our style! I used to think that as I got older, I’d need to stick to more “sensible” clothing, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

I’ve found that this is actually the perfect time to experiment with my style because I know myself so well. I know what works for me, and I’m not afraid to play around with new colors, patterns, or styles. I might not try every trend that comes my way, but I’m definitely not afraid to mix things up and have fun with fashion.

For me, it’s all about balance. I might pair a classic black blazer with a bright, floral skirt, or I’ll wear a neutral outfit but add bold jewelry. The point is, you don’t have to limit yourself to one “look” just because you’re in your 40s. Fashion is meant to be fun, and now that we’ve let go of the pressure to fit in, we can really embrace our personal style in a way that’s authentic and joyful.

Embrace Your Unique Style

So, how do you define style in your 40s? For me, it’s been a journey of self-discovery. I’ve learned that my style is mine to define—it doesn’t have to follow trends or meet anyone else’s expectations. It’s about finding what makes me feel good, whether that’s a pop of color, a statement piece of jewelry, or a cozy sweater that I love.

If you’re still trying to figure out your style in your 40s, my best advice is to trust yourself. Listen to what makes you feel confident and comfortable. Don’t be afraid to experiment, but also don’t feel pressured to change just because the trends do. You know yourself better than anyone, and that’s the real key to defining your style at any age.

And remember, the little things—like a favorite piece of jewelry or a well-loved pair of shoes—can make all the difference in how you feel. Embrace your style, own it, and let it reflect who you are. After all, in our 40s, we’ve earned the right to be unapologetically ourselves.